Rules to Being Royal

The British Royal Family, steeped in centuries of tradition, adheres to a fascinating array of rules and protocols. Some of these are well-known and formalized, while others are more subtle, reflecting the evolving nature of the monarchy in a modern world. Let's explore some of these intriguing rules that shape the daily lives of the royals.

No Politics:

Members of the Royal Family are expected to remain strictly neutral with respect to political matters. They cannot vote or stand for election and generally avoid commenting on political issues. This rule upholds the principle that the monarchy should not influence or be influenced by politics.

Dress Code:

The royals adhere to a strict dress code. For example, women are expected to wear hats to formal events and, after 6 pm, tiaras are worn but only by married women. Men don military uniforms for certain occasions and are often seen in morning coats for formal daytime events.

Permission to Marry:

The Royal Marriages Act of 1772, modified by the more recent Succession to the Crown Act of 2013, requires the first six in line to the throne to obtain the Sovereign's permission to marry. This ensures that the marriages are in the best interest of the nation.

No Autographs or Selfies:

Royals are generally not allowed to sign autographs or take selfies with the public. This is to prevent forgeries and maintain their privacy and security.

Travel Rules:

Heirs to the throne traditionally didn’t travel together to protect the line of succession. However, this rule has relaxed recently, with permission from the Queen, as seen with Prince William traveling with his family.

Dining Etiquette:

During formal dinners, once the King stops eating, everyone else must finish as well. This tradition underscores the respect accorded to the monarch. In addition to stopping eating when the King does, no one should start eating before the King starts. This rule is a mark of respect towards the monarch and is strictly observed during formal dinners and state banquets.

No Shellfish:

Historically, royals were advised against eating shellfish to avoid food poisoning, although this is more of a guideline than a strict rule today.

Custody of Grandchildren:

Interestingly, the monarch technically has custody of their minor grandchildren. This ancient law dates back to King George I, and while it is unlikely to be enforced today, it still exists legally.

The Royal Wave:

There is even a specific technique to the iconic 'royal wave,' practiced by family members. This elegant, slow-moving gesture is a hallmark of royal public appearances.

These rules, ranging from the highly practical to the quaintly ceremonial, not only dictate the conduct of the royal family members but also serve as a window into the long and intricate history of the British monarchy. While some of these protocols have evolved with time, they collectively embody the enduring legacy and the continuing relevance of the royal family in contemporary society.

Deanna Reyes